Betty VanDyke continues to be a big supporter of Valley Grange in as many ways as possible. Betty recently celebrated her 9oth Birthday with a party attended by many friends and Grangers. Those couldn’t attend sent cards and messages. This is Betty’s appreciation and some thoughts about her Grange career.
I don’t think anyone will ever know how I feel about the Grange and how badly I felt the day I wrote for a demit that I knew I would never use. Those 28 years were the best years of my life and I miss those days a lot. The work I did being Lecturer of Valley Grange for oh so many years were growing years for me and grow I did using my brain to prepare the programs that I hoped would be satisfactory for the night. Being on the CWA committee where my husband had to bring me to Augusta and “cart women around” was a highlight of my belonging. Then being asked to be Community Service Director of the Maine State Grange, how proud I was for that, receiving a Plaque of Achievement for work well done was over the top. I tell you all this not to brag but to let you how much the Grange meant to me.
I was “from away,” you see, and people told me then that I would never be accepted. But I tell you here and now I have been accepted and you can be too. The friends I have made through this journey are precious to me because they don’t forget. I have seen this recently on the occasion of my 90th birthday with the cards and Facebook messages from Grangers near and far.
I do hope with all my heart that Valley Grange grows with the community as I try to help out in whatever manner I can. If you are from away, please don’t try to change these good people, they have a lot to offer to you and you will be happier if you listen to them. Join what ever Grange is closest to you. Join to help them, your community and yourself. And as the Girl Scouts sing, “Make new friends, keep the old, one is silver the other is gold.” As a member of the Grange you can accomplish a lot.
Best of luck to all Granges everywhere.
I remain your friend,
Betty VanDyke